Now i am emotionally very insular which i prefer because i monitor my thoughts, feelings and ideas daily to see what i need to learn and make myself a better person. I am always there for others. I free my time for people where as my 'friend' only spoke to me in her spare time. See the difference there? Good. Because that's a massive clue for you to watch out for going forward. I value myself and everything i do because i don't say a lot people think i am weak and soft which i certainly am not.
Now in this day and age we have lost sight of what it is to be of assistance to others without wanting something back which is a disgrace. I have noticed a sharp increase in people donating to charities and broadcasting. Why? Do you want praise for helping others for something that we as humans should be doing on a daily basis to aid, guide and be of real help to others who are less fortunate then ourselves. I suppose what i am trying to point out are you a Dorian Gray (Oscar Wilde story Great story if you have not read it) or are you a real stand up person capable of making a real difference in other people's lives.
People who tend to be morally pure understand that this life time is one step on the journey of the soul in which we have been reincarnated countless since our first incarnation and we will now doubt reincarnate many more times beyond this lifetime. The younger souls among us are easily to recognise because of there morally impurity such as greed, materialism and sex. Sex drugs and rock and roll if you will. They manifest these traits by not showing any compassion or any shred of human empathy or sympathy towards another human being. All they see is what is right in front of them and there own selfish needs. The morally pure one amongst us see it a whole different way and try to be of service to all and sundry because they have evolved beyond the material plane and recognise people's pain suffering and damn right shallow yet they try to really make a difference to them only to be treated so badly that they leave an emotional bruise meaning they grow faster which is great because it helps our souls grow faster and evolve our consciousness making it easier for us to be at peace faster through experience.
Being of a moral purity can and is a lonely experience but i would rather walk this path alone then be a sheep pretending to accept fickle relationships as the norm. So in essence ask yourself would you rather be a giver or a taker? Because takers are never ever truly happy they are a superficial happy which is not what true happiness is all about. To be truly happy in my mind is to be at peace with who you truly are and accepting of your own role in your own life without the need to validate others and there nonsensical ideas or notions of shallowness. Givers in my experience are happier because they need less to fully be happy and appreciate live with all it's twists and turns without complaining about how unfair life can be because we realise that life will provide us with all the help we need without all the dramas. Hardships are necessary to help us streamline, downsize and fully grow into the person whop we really need top be. Remember being morally pure is tough but very rewarding because you get to cut out all the fickleness of others very easily. To paraphrase a very well known quote:
The only people mad at you for speaking the truth are those people who are living a lie. Keep speaking the truth.