I am as you can probably tell quite an inquisitive person by nature and try to understand things as they're happen to me and there impact on me so as a bit of fun i profile people based on there behavioural patterns and general attitude towards me. I don't talk much about myself purely because i let my actions speak for me. My clients and friends tell me i'm honest, caring, compassionate with a high moral compass, which works for me. This is a profile of an old female friend of mine. The reason i say old is because this has no place in my life at all and for good reasons. These events took place over a number of years allowing me to grow and see through the illusion of this so called friendship. All i ask of you the readers is to make up your own mind over the information detailed and give me a comment in regards to what you believe is the problem. Thank you.
1. Ask this friend to a wedding which she accepted and for 6 months kept telling me she was attending which i took as gold and asked for an extra seat at a limited table ceremony. I told my friends and family about this and they were happy for me but less than a week to go until the wedding got a text saying not coming with no explanation.
2. During the build up to this wedding i bought and paid for a hotel room for one person to take the pressure of my friend as to make her stay more pleasurable. Got a phone call shortly afterwards telling me i was bang out of order and that's highly disrespectful
3. After these two incidents said friend called me saying Stevie, when was the last time you went on holiday and i said maybe five years or so? She replied how about we go on holiday together and you pick the destination, so after accepting i said yeah i would like to go to Paris and the reply was no, don't like Paris not going.
4. Being caring, compassionate and forgiving i then arranged to visit her at her home city to which she said that would be fine. So i look online for train tickets and told her the dates of my planned holiday. A couple of days later she then changed the goalposts and told me to come another day because of a problem with her not having a car to which i said we don't need a car we'll manage ok without one. Cue another argument.
5. My friend died and i needed someone to talk to about it got a two sentence reply and then ignored for two days and then a phone call in which she spent 25 minutes moaning about her best female friend and her car not working at all.
6. I tell her i'll call you to which i'm promptly ignored.
7. Made me a promise that as long as were are friends no one will prevent our friendship whatsoever that's until a male comes along who she lusts after cue being dumped and ignored until a problem arises and it's straight on the phone to me.
Now. I'm not looking for anything here at all personally. I'm just asking you all to read the information stated above and make up your own mind about the profile of this friend. As i've said all comments are greatly appreciated.
1. Ask this friend to a wedding which she accepted and for 6 months kept telling me she was attending which i took as gold and asked for an extra seat at a limited table ceremony. I told my friends and family about this and they were happy for me but less than a week to go until the wedding got a text saying not coming with no explanation.
2. During the build up to this wedding i bought and paid for a hotel room for one person to take the pressure of my friend as to make her stay more pleasurable. Got a phone call shortly afterwards telling me i was bang out of order and that's highly disrespectful
3. After these two incidents said friend called me saying Stevie, when was the last time you went on holiday and i said maybe five years or so? She replied how about we go on holiday together and you pick the destination, so after accepting i said yeah i would like to go to Paris and the reply was no, don't like Paris not going.
4. Being caring, compassionate and forgiving i then arranged to visit her at her home city to which she said that would be fine. So i look online for train tickets and told her the dates of my planned holiday. A couple of days later she then changed the goalposts and told me to come another day because of a problem with her not having a car to which i said we don't need a car we'll manage ok without one. Cue another argument.
5. My friend died and i needed someone to talk to about it got a two sentence reply and then ignored for two days and then a phone call in which she spent 25 minutes moaning about her best female friend and her car not working at all.
6. I tell her i'll call you to which i'm promptly ignored.
7. Made me a promise that as long as were are friends no one will prevent our friendship whatsoever that's until a male comes along who she lusts after cue being dumped and ignored until a problem arises and it's straight on the phone to me.
Now. I'm not looking for anything here at all personally. I'm just asking you all to read the information stated above and make up your own mind about the profile of this friend. As i've said all comments are greatly appreciated.